Friday, December 20, 2013

Hope and Light


For those of us committed to the Christian faith, advent is the time of year when we think about signs of hope. Seasonally, the winter solstice is also a time that reflects the pinnacle of darkness before days start to lengthen again. Throughout human history, this has been a time when people take stock of their lives and look forward to new beginnings. It's dark today, but we know the light is coming.

Big Horn County citizens face many challenges that are worth considering. Too many of our families with young children live in poverty. These children pay the price (along with their parents) of inadequate housing, nutrition, and preventative healthcare. They also live with the unfortunate consequences of familial substance abuse and serious mental health issues. Many of our young people are forced to deal with grief and loss very early in life. 

I started teaching here in 1973. Since then, I've seen lots of children in various stages of victimization and parents in despair over how to build trust and nourish respect. We have most often dealt with child abuse and neglect through punitive consequences. This approach has kept the cycle of abuse going generation after generation. Too often, professional intervention in families happens long down the road of dysfunction, after family members have given up hope, and is usually laced with the threat of imprisonment or violence. This makes reconciliation and learning new ways of relating doubly difficult. The most effective services happen with families with very young children, before problems crop up.

It's easy to become overwhelmed and pessimistic when looking at these complicated challenges for families. Luckily, in Big Horn County, we have dedicated and talented community members who are working at building more effective systems. Within the past few years, we have established several important supports for families living in our region. We have a Child Advocacy Center that provides trauma-based services for Native children and support resources for their families. Our Community Health Center can provide a medical home for any Big Horn County child and their family. Most recently, we have formed a multi-sector group to work together on expanding opportunities for families.

The Best Beginnings Community Coalition is made up of family support specialists, parents, and community members from across the county.  We're working together to strengthen families through a range of services, including teen parenting supports, home visiting services, and parenting networking groups.  Our goal is to expand prevention-based efforts to supplement existing treatment and child protection services.

This advent season I'm going to focus on these points of light in our community and renew my commitment to supporting this great work. I hope you'll join me in this effort.  There are many needs here, but also many ways to help. Let's follow the example of Jesus and other great prophets in bringing hope to the smallest among us.

The following is supplementary to the edition in the paper:

Here are the partners working with Big Horn County Best Beginnings:
Big Horn County Extension Service
http://www.msuextension.org/counties/Bighorn
Big Horn County Public Health
http://bighorncountypublichealth.com
Big Horn County Women, Infants, and Children Program (WIC)
http://bighorncountypublichealth.com/wic.htm
Big Horn Hospital Association
http://bighornhospital.org
Bighorn Valley Health Center
http://www.bighornvalley.org
Child and Family Services Division, Department of Public Health and Human Services
http://www.dphhs.mt.gov/cfsd
Crow Tribe Education Department
Hardin Mental Health Center – South Central Montana Regional Mental Health Center
http://www.mhcbillings.org/?page=hardin
Hardin Parent Center, Hardin School District 17H & 1
Hardin Public Schools
http://www.hardin.k12.mt.us
District 7 Human Resources Development Council (HRDC)
http://hrdc7.org
Noah's Ark Preschool
Smarty Pants Preschool
Support and Techniques for Empowering People (STEP Program)
http://www.step-inc.org
St. Vincent Physician Network – Hardin Clinic
http://www.svh-mt.org/hardin_clinic

For the role of music in emotional development, and seven "c's" of music's function in human relationships see: http://www.stefan-koelsch.de/papers/Koelsch_2010_TICS_music_emotion.pdf

Some of the most scholarly and responsible scientific research into violent human behavior is that of Renee Girard, a social theorist now at Cambridge, famous for his "scapegoat" theory of the origin of human violence. Significantly, a major portion of his research into ancient literature includes Bible reading. Since most of his thirty books are infused with obscure vocabulary from the fields of anthropology, ancient history, psychology, sociology, philosophy and theology, an overview of his research is more quickly found in some of the many academic sources now participating in similar research. Many links, and written and other resources can be found on Wikipedia: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ren%C3%A9_Girard (don't get sidelined with the French football player of the same name).

In the Bible, one can read any chapter of any of the prophets and find focus on how humans treat other humans. The first book of the Bible is framed by two stories. The one at the beginning depicts a good creation that turns bad with a sibling murder event. The one at the end turns good with a sibling decided on God's way, not to murder his brothers who attempted to kill him.

Jesus shows us the father. The father wants to "turn the faces of parents toward their children." The intention of this passage is precisely that of this column, to encourage protection and security for children. It builds our humanity and maturity at any age to attend to the needs of the most vulnerable among us.

The writer has a small collection of books and written materials on Renee Girard's basic theory of mimesis. Find greenwoodfarmmt.org, 631 Woodley Ln, Hardin, MT. 

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David Graber
graberdb@gmail.com
Hardin, MT

Friday, November 29, 2013

Turkey hen joins Obamacare fight


I wasn't the only US citizen who was disappointed in the final compromise provisions of the Affordable Care Act, known as Obamacare.  It seems many of us are troubled by one or another aspect of the new law.  Many Americans were disappointed that we couldn't find a way to include a single payer option, as a route to improve citizen access to basic health care.  Many others are concerned about different aspects of the ACA. But very few of us, even the experts, have courage to step back and look at the big picture.

 

The media keeps us focused instead on myriad details of Obamacare. This keeps us from examining what really needs to change about our health care system.  Luckily, here in Big Horn County, we have country wisdom and turkeys to illuminate the big picture.  

 

Last month we had our annual turkey plucking and processing spree in preparation for Thanksgiving.  After filling the freezer, we had nine turkeys left to get through a cold Montana winter. Grandma Bonnie and I started hand feeding these remaining turkeys to keep them healthy and close to home. I guess one could call this a turkey "welfare" system. Then one day last week, we discovered we had created a monster.

 

We noticed a sharp increase in turkey fighting. It wasn't the usual turkey tangle where they joust for a firm beak-hold on another's loose neck skin, and then hang on while the victim begs and pleads for mercy. This was different. It was one turkey hen jabbing her beak into any other turkey's backside who dared peck near her for the goodies (whole corn) I had thrown into the lawn for them.  She had taken up the role of resource queen. She wanted ultimate control over all that I so generously provided.

 

This girl did not spare even her own momma from her attacks, even though her momma was the one who taught her to browse for food. There she was, aggressively pushing austerity and deprivation for the majority, trying to limit their access to the corn kernels I, the benevolent benefactor, had spread around. Earlier this fall, as fresh greens and insects disappeared, we started scattering ever larger piles of corn kernels. As a result of this bounty, a middle-management hen was born.  She took on the role of turkey-feed surrogate, managing our gift of resources for her own gain instead of the good of all.

 

This to me represents the big picture of how health care has been managed in our country.  As Americans, we assume that the only way to pay for our health care is through surrogates, like insurance-brokered health care plans and insurance-managed Medicare and Medicaid.  David Goldhill, author of  "Catastrophic Care: How American Health Care Killed my Father," points out that the health care industry plays by rules totally foreign to the rest of the business world in America.

 

Our health insurance industry rules are written for the profit of a few and designed to avoid payment of expenses related to errors, some lethal, in our high quality care. This gross irresponsibility has been happening because health care decisions are taken from individuals and their providers.  Payment approval power is given to surrogates with strong political pressures to approve any and all procedures when profitable and to deny less profitable but highly effective care (e.g., preventive medicine).

 

The best way to bring costs down to earth is to replace entirely the current economic managers of our American medical system, both the private insurance system and Medicare/Medicaid. We need to start with understanding and disarming the secrecy forces in society that built the current system on greed and profit.  We need to separate the expensive technically advanced procedures from those surrogates who would manage them for profit, and return them to people management through publicly elected representatives immune from health care industry profit influence.

 

As the turkeys have shown us, the best way to battle greed is to spread access to resources more evenly. We've learned that it works better to scatter a little corn widely across the gravel of our drive. Making a few big piles, wealth distribution the current way in America, just didn't work for turkeys. Now, with our reform, they have to move away from competing for the best plan/pile to find a place of access, and there's enough to go around. Our arrogant hen now simply joins in the scratching and browsing, no longer trying to be our surrogate. This works much better on our farm. Maybe a yet unnamed, unknown public health care system in America will arise from the ashes of the public option rejection by Obama, by Baucus, and by both the Democratic and Republican party leadership, including the Tea Party, but still endorsed by well over half of the American electorate, including this writer.

 

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David Graber

Hardin, MT  59034

graberdb@gmail.com

Friday, November 15, 2013

Facing first year beekeeping woes


Honeybees are amazing creatures. They are incredibly productive and naturally organize themselves to maintain this high efficiency. This makes beekeeping rewarding for us humans. Its easy to marvel at the finely-tuned synchronicity of the hive and compare this with our own less evolved social systems.

 

In September we harvested honey, returned some extracted supers to our two hives, and made a mistake. We set them out on the grass near the hives, following directions online implying our bees would easily find them to clean up the leftover honey the extractor did not remove. A few days later I stopped in to see how they were doing. I quickly noticed something strange about our lovely honeybees.

 

They had gone bonkers. At the hive entrances and on the extracted supers, bees were fighting. I looked more carefully, and saw that the fighting pairs were not matched. Then I realized our honeybees were fighting with some other kind of bee. I left impressed with their vigorous fighting spirit, satisfied our honeybees could handle this threat. I didn't know the inroad of this element into our honeybee hives could dominate and overcome the common good social structure of the hive. I didn't know the danger of these radically different lone ranger style bees.

 

The last day of October, Bonnie and I suited up and went back to install sugar cakes and wrap the hives with insulation for our coming winter. Immediately I noticed the east hive had dozens hanging around outside, an ordinary winter scene because when the sun shines the bees go out to defecate and find water. Then I looked at the west hive. No bees were hanging out by that entrance. I noticed a few loners buzzing in, landing on the threshold and immediately entering. I didn't notice that guard bees were missing from their usual lineup at the west hive entrances. 

 

I carefully lifted the top board of the active east hive, and found a large mass of thousands of bees hanging out just under the lid, many clinging to the underside. I held it vertically over the upper brood box and bumped it firmly, shaking a few hundred bees down into hive, then set it down. I very gently brushed a thousand or so aside to set in the cakes directly on the wood frames. There were no yellow jackets. The bees were pleasant, did not panic, and I closed the lid.  

 

I returned my attention to the west hive. One bee buzzed by my ear and directly to the entrance. It stopped long enough for me to look. I recognized it as one of the bees my honeybees were fighting earlier. I stunned it with my gloved hand, grabbed it and held it close for a good look.  I could clearly see the jagged bright yellow bands against a black background around the abs. I knew from looking at pictures online, this was a yellowjacket. I threw it to the ground and began catching and smashing a few more who came or left from the hive. None were honeybees.

 

Apprehensive, I opened the top lid. Underneath was a comforting scene. The mass of bees just under the lid was definitely smaller, but I could see no yellowjackets in the crowd. I set in the sugar cakes carefully giving time for squeezed ones to escape, closed the lid, and went back home to look online "yellowjackets attack honeybees." Apparently a bad infestation of yellowjackets can contribute to hive collapse if the hive is weakened from other causes.  But when winter comes, honeybees stay warm in clusters and yellowjackets fend for themselves, and mostly die off. If enough honey remains, or I contribute to their common good with sugar cakes, the hive will share the resources and survive the winter.

 

The Grand Old Party of my parents and grandparents is no more. It was once the party the common good for all, promoting federal, state, and local government of the people, by the people, for the people. Everyone in our valley worked at farming, but not just for ourselves. Our faith and our politics both led to sharing the first mechanical corn picker and first wire-tie baler, organizing a public elementary school district (one room school 1-8), and going with my parents to visit bedfast elderly neighbors.  Almost all our neighbors then, like us, voted Republican. It was all connected then.

 

Now that political party has inexplicably gone bonkers. Extremist issues, divisive and angry in tone, have invaded the party and taken over. Seniors are leaving it in droves. Note why, from The National Memo a month ago: "—On almost every issue we tested — including gay rights, aid to the poor, immigration, and gun control — more than half of seniors believe that the Republican Party is too extreme." The top issues of the GOP now were unknown in the GOP of my parents. I thought of this when agonizing over possible "hive collapse" because I was not alert to the unique vulnerability of honeybees with such intricate social systems dedicated to the common good of the hive. Is this not a reflection of the intricate design of our constitution so our democracy will function for the common good of all?

 

For sources and additional readings, see my blog greenwoodback40.blogspot.com

 

 

http://www.nationalmemo.com/carville-greenberg/why-seniors-are-turning-against-the-gop/

 

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/10/22/texas-judge-republican-party_n_4143094.html

 

http://www.dailykos.com/story/2013/10/15/1247468/-Workers-at-biggest-fast-food-companies-need-billions-in-public-assistance#

 

https://www.facebook.com/FranceOwesHaitiReperations/posts/669660409718842

 

http://www.nybooks.com/articles/archives/2013/sep/26/american-jewish-cocoon/?pagination=false

 

http://crooksandliars.com/john-amato/seniors-leaving-gop-and-its-about-time

 

 


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David Graber
Hardin, MT

Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Seeing Monsters

My family was discussing Halloween, so I offered my daughter a chance to guest write this week's column:

 

"Halloween came around when my son was almost three.  Though I tried to steer him away from the monstrous aisles of masks in the grocery store, he caught glimpses of twisted, distorted faces, bloody eyeballs, and rotting fangs.  He was repulsed and fascinated, asking, "Mommy …what's THAT??!!"  He also developed a fascination with skeletons.

"Having tried to create a nourishing, positive environment for my children, I wasn't sure how to help them make sense of the grotesque depictions of the human form that saturate our environment at Halloween time.  I opted for Biblical truth:  Psalm 139 in the Bible declares that we are "fearfully and wonderfully made…. Your works are wonderful!"  And what is a skeleton, but a beautiful creation of God, designed to give our bodies strength and form?  We read books, built our own cardboard skeletons, and marvelled at how our bodies work.

"But the whole thing got me thinking… why monsters?  Why do we take something that God has made good and beautiful like a skeleton, twist it into ugliness, and abdicate it to the realm of Satan?

"Tom Fox, one of four members of the Christian Peacemaker Team who were kidnapped by terrorists in Baghdad near the beginning of the Iraq war, had some answers.  Before he was abducted, he wrote a blog on the power of evil that arises from dehumanizing our enemy.   'As soon as I rob a fellow human being of his or her humanity by sticking a dehumanizing label on them, I begin the process that can have, as an end result, torture, injury and death….'   If we can see an enemy as subhuman, we can kill without remorse.

 

Looking at corpse-like mannequins and masks decorating stores and homes around town, I concluded that these "monsters" give us a paradigm for dehumanizing our enemy.  Rather than celebrate God's creation, monsters propagate cyclical violence and warfare.  Newspapers from post-Civil war times used labels such as "renegades" and "hostiles" to label plains Indians who resisted confinement on reservations.  Such labels justified the killing of women and children at Sand Creek in Colorado in November, 1864, and more.   The Sioux and Cheyenne felt completely justified in subsequently wiping out Custer and the 7th Calvary.   "Monster" slayers become monsters in their enemy's eyes, and the cycle perpetuates.

"Jesus's life and teaching strongly fought the evil power of dehumanization. 'Love your enemy, pray for those who persecute you,' wasn't just teaching us to be nice, but providing a powerful tool to stop the cycle of returning evil for evil.  St. Paul also admonishes, 'return good for evil...in doing so, you will heap burning coals on his head.'  Burning coals were mentioned as a means of purification (presumably painful) in Isaiah Ch. 1, and the head must signify the mind or thoughts.  If we treat our enemy with respect and compassion, reflecting humanity rather than monstrosity, we unleash a spiritual force of affirmation of life against the monsterization so attractive and repulsive at the same time.

Such was the outcome for many who put Jesus' teachings to the test in nonviolent resistance.  British police officers realized the power of beating down unarmed and nonresistant protesters in India didn't work, and eventually Britain granted India independence.  Police officers and store owners in the South could not hide their brutality attacking blacks seated peacefully in restaurants. The laws weren't changed because they recovered a godly conscience, but because the power of their violence was unmasked, and taken away.  Such nationwide change did not come without cost. Ghandi in India and Martin Luther King were both assassinated, and  Tom Fox was the only one of his four companions to be killed by his abductors. Like Jesus, he may have prayed, "Forgive them Father, for they don't know what they're doing."

"This Halloween, as we welcome our "monsters" onto our porches for trick-or-treats, we know deep down each one is a neighbor's child, and wouldn't think of harming or hating them. But other human beings in our world, even some in Big Horn County, have been labeled disrespectfully. Even our national media joins in turning certain people into expendable sub-humans because of religion, ethnicity, politics, economic status, addictions or livelihood. With some of this labeling comes an assumption we would be better off without them.

As Paul reminds us in Ephesians, our battle is not against flesh and blood (human beings) but against powers and principalities of dark forces in the heavenly realms.  Let those of us who would be Christians resist society's call to plop monster masks over people we see as our enemy in our community, nation and world.  Instead, let's clothe ourselves with Christ.  

Fox, Tom.  Christian Peacemaker Teams Chttp://www.cpt.org/cptnet/2005/12/03/iraq-most-recent-reflection-tom-fox-ampquotwhy-are-we-hereampquot. accessed 10/27/13  


"Jesus resisted this. Time and again he respected those labeled and dehumanized in his time. Usually he healed them. Always he showed them the Father's love. His words and deeds thus became controversial, as he met needs while defying human labels, laws and regulations. In the end, his ministry to the poor, rejected, and sinful in his time drew hatred and rejection from those who wanted to keep their biases firmly in place. In the Gospels, this is how he died, and those "least of these" are the ones who first recognized him resurrected."

 

Wednesday, October 16, 2013

Trusting the good old days too much?

I'm old enough to trust the practicality and wisdom of the good old days. The people who came before us got so many things right that it's easy to believe they had all the answers. I've admired this quality of the tea party Republicans. I understand their zeal to keep certain things as they've "always" been. But, like them, I've had to confront the reality that some traditional systems are not as efficient and effective as I'd like to believe.

Three years ago I bought an Aermotor windmill at a ranch auction west of Billings.  The windmill was old, but unused.  Only the sail section had been put together, with the unassembled parts residing in a barn for many years.   It was an incredible bargain from my perspective – old fashioned construction, with minimal wear and tear.  This year I determined to install it over a well near our farmers ditch to pump water for livestock on our west field. 

This summer, with the tower completed, I started on the wheel, confident I could assemble those sections that had never been put together. Soon I found myself really struggling.  Parts were far from fitting and fastening locations did not match up. I assumed it was because irresponsible parties had mistreated those sections and bent the rims or sails. I got help from a neighbor interested in the project. He pointed out how the wheel rods (like spokes of a bike wheel) interfered with the sails. My mind couldn't even consider the possibility that the sail sections were not correctly assembled decades ago.

For two weeks I struggled to bend the sails and the rods to fit the rims. I used a pipe clamp and a fence stretcher. I didn't care what it took to bend the steel to my will.  I was confident that I was winning, by brute force. On October 13, 2013 I stood back and took a look at my work.  On that day, the light pierced through my cognitive dissonance.  I saw not one bent rim from mistreatment, but two sail sections I had forced into place, with spokes and rims bent askew.

At that moment I started to consider the possibility that my trust in conventional wisdom of the good old days was misguided. As I checked carefully the diagrams and narrative of instructions I found online, my worst fears were realized. The original assembly of the sail section was incorrect.   Four of the six sections needed to be disassembled and reconfigured, taking into account the full 10 foot diameter of the wheel. What happened next was amazing. I no longer needed to use my fence stretcher or my pipe clamp. In an hour I finished installing the last four correctly assembled sections. Now the wheel looks right and spins true with the mill gearbox.  I'm more confident that my new windmill will pump water this winter as intended, assuming rain will stop and the dirt around the tower will be firm enough to bring in a crane. 

Our nation may be at a similar place with the current health care system reforms. Lots of people express dislike for Obamacare, but not necessarily for the same reasons. Some believe that the reforms will increase entitlement spending for our growing poor and elderly population, bankrupting our country.  But some of us in Big Horn County are not enamored with the Affordable Care Act because there is no public pay option.  We feel that excessive health insurance costs are already bankrupting families.  Some of us believe that health insurance is not really an optional luxury item that certain people can get by without. Trying to force these disparate views together as a collective American rejection of Obamacare is a fallacy.

Yet the Affordable Care Act can really help Big Horn County families access health care without turning our personal finances into a tailspin. See on line for answers to health care financial questions in Montana: http://montanahealthanswers.com/families/

We don't have to walk away from or trash the windmill wheel of governance over health care in this country. Obamacare was enacted into law, with strong bipartisan negotiation among our elected representatives in Washington well before Obama refused to negotiate the dismantlement of the law. It's time to congratulate the tea party Republicans on confronting their own cognitive dissonance stop trying to derail Obamacare. Now let's get about the business of reducing the deficit, increasing affordable health care for all of us, and addressing the real sources of irrational and foolish deficit spending in all sectors of our economy.

David Graber
graberdb@gmail.com
Hardin, MT
www.greenwoodfarmmt.org


Friday, October 4, 2013

Where children who bully learn bullying

Like virtually every career teacher, I encountered bullying among students. Most of us also encounter bullying in adult relationships. Too often we don't think of it that way. But it's clear to me that children see adults bully, and they bully too.

After reading a letter in the Billings Gazette September 23 by an ordained minister and citizen of Big Horn County, I decided to set my usual column aside and offer this letter on adult bullying:

"It is encouraging to see public school officials at last recognizing and taking steps to prevent bullying among children and older students. However, we have ignored the equally significant problem of bullying among adults, especially as it plays out in the workplace. We are incredibly naïve, or in denial, when we fail to take seriously the bullying behavior we adults display almost routinely. Where do we suppose our children learn to be bullies?

"Considerable research about bullying in the workplace has been done in Scandinavian countries and the United Kingdom, as well as in the United States. Yet little public attention has been given to the prevalence of such bullying and to the negative impact it has on the individuals who are targeted, as well the organizations where it occurs.

"Bullying is a costly behavioral disease that is both individual and corporate in nature. An individual can act as a bully, but an entire organization can have a bullying nature as well. Bullying consists of repeated, intentional actions designed to harm (and intimidate) the target person or persons. Some examples of bullying behavior are: ridiculing or accusing a person in front of others, being physically or verbally intimidating, damaging a person's reputation by rumor or gossip, setting impossible or conflicting deadlines in order to undermine a person's productivity, treating an individual differently from the rest of the work group, lying about a person's performance and retaliating against a person for complaining.

"Researchers suggest that the majority of bullies found in the workplace are women and, overwhelmingly, their targets are other women. Studies also suggest that people who demonstrate bullying behavior have themselves been the targets of bullies. This contagious nature of bullying is a great reason to recognize it when it happens and address it promptly.

"But addressing the bullying that takes place at work can be a difficult and risky undertaking. Remember, bullying is all about wielding power and control over those who are less powerful and instilling fear in them and any others who might be looking on. Confronting the bully can cost status, relationships, even one's job. Too often a person's bullying behavior becomes the elephant in the room that no one wants to confront.

"That was the case when I went to work as a chaplain for a hospice organization a few years ago. Beginning with the first staff meeting I attended, I observed the supervisor belittling certain workers in front of everyone else. My co-workers were quick to explain that the supervisor had behaved that way for as long as they had known her; but no one dared to do anything about it for fear of losing their job.

"Sometimes I came across co-workers in the restrooms crying after an encounter with this supervisor. One of my co-workers became frantic when she received a phone call from the supervisor, telling my co-worker she wanted to meet with her. My co-worker was terrified that she was going to be fired without warning. She had seen that happen before. And a month later she saw it happen again when I was suddenly fired without warning after first trying to address the bullying behavior with the supervisor herself and then reporting it to the human resources department.

"This is an example of the devastation bullying can cause. Studies of individuals who have been the targets of bullying show that they can suffer from depression, anxiety to the point of having digestive and sleep disturbances and stress to the point of developing post-traumatic stress disorder. Lost income and difficulties in relationships with family and friends can be additional costs.

"There are also significant costs to organizations that tolerate bullying among their employees, including: employee absences, grievances, resignations and requests for transfer; difficulties meeting organizational goals; legal costs associated with investigations and lawsuits; and damage to the organization's reputation.

"It does not make sense to stand against bullying among our children and yet remain quiet about bullying among us adults, especially in the workplace. Bullying behavior is destructive, costly and wrong wherever it develops."

 —From a letter to the Billings Gazette Sepember 23, 2013 by Catherine Card

The following, not in the Big Horn County News, are links and information on bullying:

http://www.splcenter.org/get-informed/news/teaching-tolerance-magazine-examines-how-to-end-bullying-behavior


Read more: http://billingsgazette.com/news/opinion/guest/guest-opinion-adult-bullies-take-toll-on-u-s-workers/article_bcfb75e9-b971-5ac6-90dc-7b30088d6c39.html#ixzz2frt6CMD8

http://www.bullyingprevention.org/repository//Best%20Practices%20PDFs/AdultBulliesAtWork.pdf

http://www.washingtonea.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=470

Adult-to-adult bullying affects workplaces throughout the world, often taking the form of sexual harassment or illegal discrimination. Bullying is very prevalent in the United States; however, bullying that does not take the form of illegal discrimination or sexual harassment is not illegal. The research reveals the dramatic consequences that this type of bullying has on individuals and workplaces. Targets of bullies often suffer from serious health conditions as a result of being bullied and workplace efficiency is severely reduced because of the overwhelming strain that bullying can place on targets.

In schools, adult-to-adult bullying can have even more dire effects, such as influencing student behavior and legitimizing student bullying tactics. Because of this, it is very important that school employees familiarize themselves with how to effectively deal with bullies.

 

http://www.theravive.com/research/The-Psychology-Of-Bullying

Abstract

Bullying is a serious issue that is faced by many people, and can leave a child to live in complete fear. It is destructive, abusive, and intolerable to exist in any home or school. There are all types of bullies and all types of victims yet bullies have certain commonalities as do the victims. Bullying can cause lifelong psychological effects that may require therapy in order to overcome. In more serious cases, the bullying has gotten so bad that the victim chooses to take their own life just to escape the bullying they endure. It is helpful to recognize the behavior of a bully as well as the signs that someone is a victim as the sooner the signs are spotted the sooner help can arrive for all parties involved. Here you will find the signs and symptoms of the bullying/victim relationship and find out what can be done to curb this behavior and help someone who is in a toxic situation.

Bullies have existed since the beginning of time as have the victims who have suffered from the bullying. With so many different ways to bully others in this day in age, it is getting harder and harder to control it and protect the victims. The age old question though is what makes a bully a bully? Who are bullies and what are their motivations? Why are certain people targets of bullies more than others? This paper will look into bullying from a psychological standpoint and attempt to take a look into the mind of a bully. There will also be exploration into the types of bullying that are faced today which are staggering considering the new world of technology that we now live in.

 

http://www.lifeafteradultbullying.com/

Welcome to Life After Adult Bullying

 

Having been a target of bullies in the past l have a deep dislike of them. I decided to create this site because adult bullying is too often ignored, with looks of disbelief from people that such should be going on between adults.

Knowing the way bullying can destroy lives, it is time for people to start to fight back and this is my contribution towards that fight


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David Graber


Hardin, MT

Thursday, September 19, 2013

Working over Obamacare

Tuesday Sept. 24 New York Times opinion page has an article on the lies/distortions currently in the media on Obamacare better elucidated than my column: http://takingnote.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/09/23/sabotaging-health-care-one-lie-at-a-time/
Here is my column, with Links and additional commentary missing in The Big Horn County News, in italics:
It's hard for me to imagine that citizens of Big Horn County are as confused as many in the rest of the country over Obamacare.  If they are, I'd like to do my part to help clear things up.  
The mixed messages we're getting from media, politicians, and our fellow citizens could leave anybody's head spinning (and not from lack of medicine).  Last month I saw a news picture of Tea Party demonstrators carrying signs that said "Hands off my health care" and "No socialized medicine."  At first this seemed consistent with the familiar conservative message of reducing government intervention.  Except, it turns out they weren't protesting expansions in government-subsidized health care.  They were actually expressing their opposition to the proposed $500 billion cut in Medicare.  Huh? 
Then at the Kentucky State Fair in Louisville last month, a middle-aged man in a red golf shirt stood raptly at a booth labeled "Kynect." He was receiving services through Kentucky's state-run program to help citizens access the new health benefit exchanges (similar to services that will be available here in Big Horn County next month). The man was impressed. "This beats Obamacare I hope," he mutters to one of the workers. See  http://kynect.ky.gov/ for a detailed report, and for further analysis http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/08/22/kentucky-obamacare_n_3801054.html
"Do I burst his bubble?" wonders Reina Diaz-Dempsey, overseeing the operation. She doesn't. If he signs up, it's a win-win, whether or not he knows it's really Obamacare. Yes, "Kynect" is the Republican-initiated program written ten years ago for Massachusetts.  It was adopted with few changes by the Obama administration and dubbed "The Affordable Care Act." This program got lots of bipartisan support because it will significantly improve the average citizen's access to private health insurance, while potentially increasing health industry profit margins.  So what's the problem with affordable and profitable health care? Is it all in the sound of the label "Obamacare," eliciting media-promoted emotional reactions nationwide?

Some people may prefer to be misinformed.  After all, we're living in a world of sound bites and unexamined beliefs we like to call "facts." However, I think we're better than this here in Big Horn County.  I want a little more straight talk and I believe you might, too. Let's take a look at some of the misinformation floating around about Obamacare.
 1 Obamacare cuts $500 Billion From Medicare:  Why would the same people trying to eliminate virtually all family support programs, also not want to reduce Medicare costs?  It turns out that the health insurance companies are determined to keep their cash cow program, "Medicare Advantage," pouring tax money into their private coffers.  The proposed cuts are not a slashing of the current Medicare budget or current benefits.  Changes to the "Medicare Advantage" private insurance-run programs will lead to substantial saving for taxpayers over the next ten years. Of course, it will be cutting some government handouts to insurance companies.
 Why would they suddenly promote this program benefiting primarily the poor? Obama wielded the same rhetoric against the Republicans: 
Nevertheless, it's a $500 billion reduction in the growth of future spending over 10 years not a slashing of the current Medicare budget or benefits. It's true that those getting benefits will continue getting their benefits. But it's also true that Medicare Advantage's private plans (about 22 percent of Medicare enrollees) will have fewer options for add-on benefits that really bankroll more profit for private insurance companies. The bill aims to reduce rising costs from Medicare Advantage plans that simply hand over Medicare funds for corporate insurance administration.
These insurance administration costs have risen much higher, compared with the regular fee-for-service government-administered Medicare. But because congress has consistently stopped real medicare reform, it has inadvertently or not cultivated the resultant criticisms of medicare's problems. Medicare Advantage plans run by insurance companies have been quick to step into the gap, insurance companies have reaped increasing profits, and we citizens have sheepishly picked up the tab to pay insurance companies instead of the government (see how government messed up Medicare?) for the increased cost.

2. It will pay for illegal immigrants' health care:  The Affordable Care Act doesn't provide health care for undocumented immigrants. In fact, there are numerous provisions that specifically require exclusion of undocumented immigrants.  But whoa! Perhaps we should let immigrants pay into the pool. http://voices.washingtonpost.com/ezra-klein/2009/09/the_case_for_insuring_illegal.html
This lie was launched to prominence with the help of a false accuser, South Carolina Rep. Joe Wilson, who famously heckled President Barack Obama during an address to a Joint Session of Congress by yelling "You lie!" after the president had mentioned that undocumented immigrants would not be eligible for the credits for the bill's proposed health care exchanges.
Undocumented immigrants are younger, healthier, and prone to work harder than most of us long time citizens. With 7 million of these potential insurance premium payers in our country, they would definitely lower insurance costs for all of us.

3 It's a Jobs-Killer: Some pundits pronounce anything that the Obama White House does—from regulating pollution to flossing after meals—as something that would "kill jobs." The Affordable Care Act is no different. There's no real evidence to support this familiar diatribe. Come on guys, get a new slogan. 
But does the health reform plan threaten jobs? Not by any honest measure. See McClatchy Newspapers

4 It adds to The Deficit: Will this big government program push indebtedness to such a height that our future Chinese overlords will gleefully take over Sarpy Mine?  We spend twice as much of our GDP on healthcare as other industrialized nations.  This situation might make sense if we had better health outcomes, but unfortunately for all of us, this is not the case. How does this upside-down spending-to-benefit ratio ensure our financial future as a nation? Independent analysis shows that affordable health insurance is likely to save both public and private money, and is already showing this to be the case in states where implementation is progressing.

5.  Republicans, and their ideas, were left out of the bill and the process.
In fact, the Democrats were eager to get GOP input and enthusiastic about including many of their desired components in the bill. The Affordable Care Act was modeled on a reform designed and implemented by a former Republican governor and presidential candidate, whose innovation was widely celebrated by the GOP while said former governor was running for president. The heritage foundation dreamed up the "individual mandate" used in Massachusetts in Romneycare to ensure "no free riders."  Further provisions were borrowed from the Senate GOP alternative to the Clinton plan in the 1990s, and the 2009 Bipartisan Policy Committee plan, which was endorsed by Tom Daschle, Howard Baker, and Bob Dole.

As for the process, you might recall that the White House very patiently waited for the bipartisan Gang Of Six to weigh in with its own solution, and openly courted one Republican gang member, Sen. Chuck Grassley, long after it was clear to every reporter inside the Beltway that Grassley was intentionally acting in bad faith. 
And perhaps you don't recall the bipartisan health care summit that was held in March of 2009? if so, don't feel bad about it -- RNC Chairman Michael Steele couldn't remember it either, when he yelled at the president for not having one.
Steele Criticizes Obama For Not Holding A Health Care Summit Last Year...Which He Did February 25, 2010 10:45 am ET — Matt Finkelstein
Today on MSNBC's "Daily Rundown," RNC Chairman Michael Steele dismissed today's bipartisan health care summit as a "dog and pony show." The beleaguered chairman added that if President Obama was serious about working across the aisle, he should have started off the reform process with a bipartisan event last year.  But, as hosts Chuck Todd and Savannah Guthrie quickly pointed out, Obama actually did hold a bipartisan summit last March:

6 Death Panels will be terminating patients to fund Obamacare.
The "death panel" lie spread across Montana, only exceeded by its predictability. That is the best way to counter opening access and reducing cost to millions of Americans who have gone without health care for so long? Convince them the government wants them dead. "It really began with serial liar Betsy McCaughey, who in 1994 polluted the pages of the New Republic with a staggering pile of deception in an effort to scuttle President Bill Clinton's health care reform. As Nyhan documents, she re-emerged in 2009 when "she invented the false claim that the health care legislation in Congress would result in seniors being directed to 'end their life sooner.'"
Nyhan: "McCaughey's statement was a reference to a provision in the Democratic health care bill that would have provided funding for an advanced care planning for Medicare recipients once every five years or more frequently if they become seriously ill. As independent fact-checkers showed (PolitiFact.com 2009b; FactCheck.org 2009a), her statement that these consultations would be mandatory was simply false--they would be entirely voluntary.

 7 Our health care is already 'The Best In The World'
We have the pinnacle of health care in the United States. Why would we mess with the best?
We also have the best first-class commercial air travel. What do the people in America who "fly coach" in the health care system get? By all objective measurements, it's overpriced and underperforming—if you were lucky enough to be participating in it. As anyone who's fortunate enough to have employer based health care or unfortunate enough to have a pre-existing condition can tell you, health care for ordinary people already involved all of those things that we were told would be a feature of the Affordable Care Act: long waits, limited choice, and rationing.
So Many More To Choose From!
Here's research on the vast numbers of young adults who simply don't know the meaning of the Affordable Care Act's reforms:
Covering Young Adults Under the Affordable Care Act:
The Importance of Outreach and Medicaid Expansion
Findings from the Commonwealth Fund
Health Insurance Tracking Survey of Young Adults, 2013
Sara R. Collins, Petra W. Rasmussen, Tracy Garber, and Michelle M. Doty
 Here's the abstract: There is concern that many young adults (ages 19–29) will remain without health insurance in 2014 despite the Affordable Care Act's reforms, including subsidized private coverage offered in new state marketplaces and expanded Medicaid eligibility. How things turn out will likely depend on outreach efforts and states' decisions on expanding Medicaid. Commonwealth Fund Health Insurance Tracking Survey data from 2011 and 2013 show increasing awareness among young adults of the 2010 requirement that health plans cover children under age 26. Of the estimated 15 million young adults enrolled in a parent's plan in the prior 12 months, 7.8 million would not likely have been eligible to enroll prior to the law. Still, only 27 percent of 19-to-29-year-olds are aware of the marketplaces. Meanwhile, most uninsured young adults living below poverty will not have access to subsidized public or private insurance in states opting out of the Medicaid expansion.

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David Graber
Hardin, MT

Thursday, September 5, 2013

Middle East Morass

Fall is in the air once again and our familiar autumn rituals are underway. Here in Big Horn County we're busy with harvesting, canning, and getting little ones started in school. Out in Washington D.C. they're planning for our next military strike in the Middle East. It seems like some things never change.  
The media has a lot to say about the war weary American public. Yes, we should be a war-exhausted species. We've been going at this for centuries, with little relief. While our justifications and weaponry changes, our propensity for war has remained unabated since ancient times.  
In the grotto of the cathedral chapel at Notre Dame University is a relic of a little-known saint from ancient Roman times. Marcellus of Tangier was a Roman Centurion, leading a campaign to stamp out insurrections not far from Syria in the year 289 CE.  At that time, Emperor Maximian Herculeus was considered to be a divine entity, a son of god, and Christianity was outlawed.  On the occasion of the emperor's birthday, Marcellus rose, clad in his military regalia, to address the gathered crowd. Instead of appropriate words of praise for the emperor, Marcellus astonished everyone present by removing his implements of war—sword, belt, armor and dagger—and laying them before the imperial dais. He declared that as a servant of Jesus Christ he would no longer participate in demonic worship and its associated slaughter of human flesh and blood. This didn't end so well for him, as on October 30, 289 CE, he was beheaded for treason, along with the clerk Cassius who protested the unjust sentence. However, his bold words will again be considered an heroic act of faith and self-sacrifice by those who celebrate this saint's day come October 30.
 As time passed, Christianity grew across the Roman Empire and soon became the law of the land. In spite of the message of Christ, war continued in all its forms. Now people could use Christianity as a justification for brutalizing pagans, including Jews and Muslims.  Any soldier killed in active duty was guaranteed a spot in heaven. Today, Islamic extremists bent on insurrection against the United States offer the same reward to their suicide bombers.
 Marcellus believed that war was demonic—a horror against all of mankind. I think this truth is still with us today.  Any war, no matter how well justified or morally righteous, will bring suffering and brutality beyond comprehension. 
 Syria is symptomatic of a rising epidemic of governmental violence and reciprocal insurrection violence hearkening back to Pax Romana. But today, our technology surpasses all previous advances in power to smash human flesh, bone and blood. The demonic cancer of high tech violence now floods increasingly from our movie screens out to the far corners of plant earth. As the evil dictator Assad escalates his chemical warfare against his own civilians, President Obama wants to respond in kind by sending our own weapons of massive destruction, carried by our new generation of brave warriors, into the carnage.
 Whatever happens with Syria (or our next military intervention in the Middle East), I hope we can find the courage to ask ourselves some fundamental questions about war's capacity to heal. Is it possible to use an awesomely superior power to blow up, gas aerosol bomb, break, microwave, or smash human bodies for peace? Can violence be quelled with violence, no matter how superior? After all, peace reigned in Jewish ghettos following massive torture and executions by Nazi SS troops. Brutal dictators across the globe seek peace by killing all who oppose them, down to the last child. This kind of uneasy peace incurs a future cost that is incalculable, as we see time and time again across our planet.  Remember Rwanda and the Balkans?  
 In contrast to the science of warfare, the scientific research into how humans wage peace and win against terrible evil is rising. There are other ways. Obama is not trapped into returning evil for evil, and neither are we in our families. Many of our naïve assumptions about "doing what it takes" are demonstrably idiotic. After all, we've been engaging in rampant warfare for centuries, with all its accompanying horrors. It doesn't seem to solve our fundamental conflicts. I wonder what we could learn from those who found the courage to separate out the demonic from the holy, as did Jesus in ancient Israel, Saint Marcellus in the Western Roman Empire, and Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., in our own time.
Meantime, in our living rooms, most of our children watch cartoons with special blood-and-guts effects raising the ante of adolescent tit-for-tat, pay-back, and giving those bad guys some of their own medicine. Maybe we could heed our Bible, read our history of saints who made the supreme sacrifice, challenge our adolescent mentalities about "there's a jungle out there," and grow up a little.
The following was not included in the column as published September 4, 2013:
First, some comments from Kevin Zeese in Truthout. For the entire article see http://truth-out.org/opinion/item/18673-obama-should-seek-legal-prosecution-not-illegal-war

There is no question that under international law, the allegations of chemical weapons use by the Syrian government do not provide a legal basis for military action by the United States.  To put it directly: The United States will be violating international law if it attacks Syria.
To act within the rule of law to effectively deter the use of chemical weapons the following should occur:
  1. The U.S. should present its evidence regarding use of chemical weapons in Syria to the UN Security Council.
  2. The Security Council should condemn any use of chemical weapons and forbid further use of chemical weapons.
  3. It should expand the scope of the UN investigation to include the issue of responsibility for attacks, refer the Syrian situation to the International Criminal Court for further investigation and adjudication, and call for convening of a peace conference.
Congressman Alan Grayson of Florida gives a thorough analysis of the proposed military intervention in Syria: “The only thing you can be really sure about when you start a war is that you can’t be sure about anything when you start a war.” He is interviewed at length on September 5, 2013 on Democracy Now. See www.democracynow.org.
Our government has a history of hypocrisy with chemical warfare. Some of the secrets have been pried out of the closet, and millions have suffered around the world, including several deplorable incidents causing unnecessary suffering and death among our enlisted. This WMD, chemical warfare, has been deployed and may still be deployed by our government secretly. From agent orange and phosphorus bombs to sarin and U238, the history is often ignored by our media. Check this site for informative links and evidence: http://www.alternet.org/world/america-and-chemical-warfare?akid=10899.144927.cUsAQi&rd=1&src=newsletter893052&t=5

 Pope Francis, addressing the crowd on Sunday (September 1, 2013) in the Vatican City's St. Peter's Square: "Never has the use of violence brought peace in its wake. War begets war, violence begets violence." 
For info on the campaign of deception to promote war, check this out:
From the false Tonkin Gulf narrative in 1964 that boosted the Vietnam War to the fabricated baby-incubators-in-Kuwait tale in 1990 that helped launch the Gulf War to the reports of Iraqi weapons of mass destruction early in this century, countless deaths and unfathomable suffering have resulted from the failure of potential whistleblowers to step forward in a timely and forthright way -- and the failure of journalists to challenge falsehoods in high government places.
Once again, like in the build-up to bombing Baghdad, lots of the rhetoric doesn't add up. But the commercial media is not paying attention. Unlike my Chinese colleagues at XiHua University near Chengdu City in Sichuan, we so easily believe our government when it comes to beating the drums of war.
Here's reporting on a consensus of top military advisors: http://consortiumnews.com/2013/09/06/obama-warned-on-syrian-intel/
Here's TruthOut, an alternative independent resource:
Our troubles with counterinsurgency warfare:
Regent University publication, "Christianity.com", June, 2007: 
 Telling the stories that matter:
 Best detailed account is this story quoted on line  From A Treasury of Early Christianity, edited by Anne Fremantle, New York: Viking Press, 1953, pp. 233-236)
 The Martyrdom of Saints Marcellus and Cassian
Marcellus was a native of Tingis (now Tangier), and a centurion during the reign of Diocletian. He cast away his arms and declared himself a Christian, for which he was sentenced [in 298] by the governor Fortunatus to be beheaded. At the time of Marcellus's trial Cassian was a shorthand writer in the court. He declared that the sentence of Marcellus was unjust, for which heresy he himself was imprisoned and a little later suffered the same martyrdom.
In the city of Tingis, during the administration of Fortunatus as governor, the time came for the birthday of the Emperor. When all in that place were feasting at banquets and sacrificing, a certain Marcellus, one of the centurions of the Trajan legion, deeming those banquets to be heathen, cast away his soldier's belt in front of the standards of the legion which were then in camp, and testified in a loud voice, saying: "I serve Jesus Christ the Eternal King." He also threw away his vine-switch and arms, and added: "Henceforward I cease to serve your Emperors, and I scorn to worship your gods of wood and stone, which are deaf and dumb idols. If such be the terms of service that men are forced to offer sacrifice to gods and Emperors, behold I cast away my vine-switch and belt, I renounce the standards, and refuse to serve."
The soldiers were dumbfounded at hearing such things; they laid hold on him, and reported the matter to Anastasius Fortunatus the commander of the legion, who ordered him to be thrown into prison. When the feasting was over, he gave orders, sitting in council, that the centurion Marcellus should be brought in. When Marcellus, one of the centurions of Asta, was brought in, Anastasius Fortunatus the governor said: "What did you mean by ungirding yourself in violation of military discipline, and casting away your belt and vineswitch?"
Marcellus answered: "On the twenty-first of July, in presence of the standards of your legion, when you celebrated the festival of the Emperor, I made answer openly and in a loud voice that I was a Christian and that I could not serve under this allegiance, but only under the allegiance of Jesus Christ the Son of God the Father Almighty."
Anastasius Fortunatus the governor said, "I cannot pass over your rash conduct, and therefore I will report this matter to the Emperors and Caesar. You yourself shall be referred unhurt to my lord, Aurelius Agricolan, Deputy for the Prefects of the Guard." [The shorthand writer who took down the official proceedings was Caecilius.]
On the 30th of October at Tingis, Marcellus, one of the centurions of Asta, having been brought into court, it was officially reported: "Fortunatus the governor has referred Marcellus, a centurion, to your authority. There is in court a letter dealing with his case, which at your command I will read."
Agricolan said: "Let it be read."
The official report was as follows: "From Fortunatus to you, my lord, and so forth. This soldier, having cast away his soldier's belt, and having testified that he was a Christian, spoke in the presence of all the people many blasphemous things against the gods and against Caesar. We have therefore sent him on to you, that you may order such action to be taken as your Eminence may ordain in regard to the same."
After the letter had been read, Agricolan said: "Did you say these things as appear in the official report of the governor?"
Marcellus answered: "I did."
Agricolan said: "Did you hold the rank of a centurion of the first class?"
Marcellus answered: "I did."
Agricolan said: "What madness possessed you to cast away the signs of your allegiance, and to speak as you did?"
Marcellus answered: "There is no madness in those who fear the Lord."
Agricolan said: "Did you make each of these speeches contained in the official report of the governor?"
Marcellus answered: "I did."
Agricolan said: "Did you cast away your arms?"
Marcellus answered: "I did. For it was not right for a Christian, who serves the Lord Christ, to serve the cares of the world."
Agricolan said: "The acts of Marcellus are such as must be visited with disciplinary punishment." And he pronounced sentence as follows: "Marcellus, who held the rank of centurion of the first class, having admitted that he has degraded himself by openly throwing off his allegiance, and having besides put on record, as appears in the official report of the governor, other insane expressions, it is our pleasure that he be put to death by the sword."
When he was being led to execution, he said to Agricolan: "May God bless thee! For so ought a martyr to depart out of this world."
And when he had said these words he was beheaded, dying for the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, who is glorious for ever and ever. Amen.
When Aurelius Agricolan was acting as deputy for the Prefects of the Praetorian Guard, at the time when he was preparing to hear the case of the holy martyr Marcellus, the blessed Cassian was a shorthand writer under the orders of his staff. So when Marcellus, one of the centurions of Asta, was brought into court at Tingis on the 30th of October, Aurelius Agricolan by his power as judge strove with many threats to seduce him from perseverance in his confession. But the blessed Marcellus by the power of his constancy, so that all henceforward considered him his judge's judge, proclaimed that he was the soldier of Christ, and could not serve the cares of the world, while Aurelius Agricolan on the other hand poured forth words full of fury. Cassian was taking down these statements, but, when he saw Aurelius Agricolan, beaten by the devotion of so great a martyr, pronounce sentence of death, he vowed with an imprecation he would go no farther, and threw on the ground his pen and note book. So, amid the astonishment of the staff and the laughter of Marcellus, Aurelius Agricolan trembling leapt from the bench and demanded why he had thrown down his note books with an oath. Blessed Cassian answered that Agricolan had dictated an unjust sentence. To avoid further contradiction, Agricolan ordered him to be at once removed and cast into prison.
Now the blessed martyr Marcellus had laughed because, having knowledge of the future through the Holy Spirit, he rejoiced that Cassian would be his companion in martyrdom. On that very day, amid the eager expectation of the city, blessed Marcellus obtained his desire. After no long interval, namely, on the 3rd of December, the worshipful Cassian was brought into the same court in which Marcellus had been tried, and by almost the same replies, the same statement as holy Marcellus had made, merited to obtain the victory of martyrdom, through the help of our Lord Jesus Christ, to whom belong honour and glory, excellency and power for ever and ever. Amen.

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David Graber

Hardin, MT  59034

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Tuesday, August 20, 2013

Learning and fun are deadly serious.

Towards the end of summer in Big Horn County, two events of great significance for our children converge: Crow Fair and the start of the school year. At the fair, excited children are given the opportunity to be in their first dance, prepared with the right regalia, given an Indian name, blessed, and given strong ties to their extended family and tribe. They enter the arena with strong interest at being acceptable as members of their family. Most important, with these patterns of interaction with their family members, they have life.

After Crow Fair parents hurry to prepare children for school with the right clothing, learning materials, and excitement about school. Children are taken to school the first day so parent, teacher and child can get acquainted. They begin with a clear understanding of school rules, who will enforce them and how. 

Both of these watershed events access children's God-given drive for life: to learn the intensely human patterns unique to their family and friends. It's how we humans say to each other, "You belong, you are part of us, we need you to stay with us." The drive to know and do these patterns supersedes any other drive for life among humans. 

A few decades ago in my 50's I went with my son and a friend to hike a hundred miles of the John Muir trail in the California High Sierras. At that time he was unconvinced of the usefulness of fly fishing, and left it to me to haul a fly reel along with my seven-foot collapsible spinning rod. Having heard that mayflies, caddices and midges are generally of a light burnt brown to white color in the Sierras, I collected a chunk of fur from our pet cat Marshmallow, and proceeded to tie some midge patterns using this fur. It worked fine for several of the ponds and streams we encountered, but all the trout we caught to that point were small, almost fingerlings compared to Big Horn River trout.  Then we arrived one late afternoon at a lake below timberline surrounded by trees and a talus slope to the south. We saw rises. These were larger trout, appearing to be about a foot long.

A slight breeze drifted over the lake down from a tight talus slope, and that's where I carefully dropped my marshmallow special carefully a few meters off the rocks. In seconds, up came one to take a look. Immediately several others surfaced, splashed around my fly, and took off to the depths. I waited, and nothing else happened so I cast to another spot where I had seen some rises, and a larger golden nosed up to investigate mine. Again, this one had barely arrived into visibility when a pod of others charged into the scene, circled with a few splashes and they all disappeared.  Meanwhile, I could still see rises to real flies on the surface surrounding my fake.

I kept trying, and the same scenario repeated. Darkness was descending before I finally got a small hit, but I hooked none of those fish from that lake. Neither did my son, with his spinning hardware. We only speculated on why those trout obviously had so much fun splashing around my fake fly. Were the fish actually teaching each other what a fake fly looked like? Was my attempt to harvest dinner being turned into a learning opportunity for the young fish in the school? What had they learned and how? Or was some or all of this my imagination, imposing my human mind on reptile mind?

Crow Fair provides a powerful venue for passing along important life lessons to children. Activities from camping to dancing take place in intergenerational groups of family members. Children don't spend so much of their time with others of the same age from different families. Song and dance are central patterns that connect children with others: first in their family, but also with the tribe and nation. Children are expected to do what their parents do. Yet boundaries are clear, and children are often entrusted with their own self-discipline, with minimal threat and virtually no punishment.

 Big Horn County schools serve a similar and complementary role for our children. In the structured environment of public school, our children acquire a different set of life lessons. Because of the schools' healthier foods programs, kids can't default to sugar and refined carbos. Activities are used to challenge and enrich. Time is carefully planned to the minute, and children do not have the option to walk away and do their own thing.

While the lessons of Crow Fair may be more about culture and identity, and the lessons of school more about academics, it seems to me that there is some value in finding ways where the two venues could merge a bit. Just like the fish in that mountain lake, we want to equip our kids as much as possible with the tools and insights they need not just to survive, but to thrive. Perhaps this week's two major community events might hold the key to some powerful tools for doing just that.

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David Graber
Hardin, MT  59034
www.greenwoodfarmmt.org
graberdb@gmail.com

Thursday, August 8, 2013

Learning from Trayvon and George


The tragic death of Trayvon Martin has given the media much fodder to publicly chew over the past few months. To date there are hundreds of in-depth media analyses and news stories, hyping this case into distracting agendas of racism and bigotry.

 

I think this story is so fascinating for us because it demonstrates how the assumptions we make about each other can lead to truly horrible consequences. 


On the surface it's a simple set-up. Trayvon, the hoodie wearer with a black face, was the victim of unfounded suspicion and fear. He had experienced being followed and confronted prior to that fateful night, so was ready to defend himself against future attacks. George, the overweight ADD child, had developed his own sense of defensiveness and insecurity. Both went out that night primed to confront the enemy their separate communities defined for them. Trayvon was ready to resist "the man" or any white person challenging his right to be present on the streets of his neighborhood. George took the role of gun-toting community protector against burglars or other low life trespassers on his, the very same, neighborhood streets.

 

It seems to me that we can all relate to both of these positions.   Haven't we all claimed the right to move through the world unmolested by those who miss-perceive us as threats and the right to feel safe where we live?  I know that I have felt both sides of this.  

 

In fact, I can still recall the summer afternoon in 1973 I took unpaid leave from a mobile home assembly line to stand before a judge in a courtroom in Boise, Idaho. The week before, driving home from work, I was in the right lane in an intersection when a Mercedes driver to my left decided to make a right turn, into the left front fender of my '63 Ford station wagon. The impact was strong enough to tear my headlight rim off.

 

Even though I wasn't at fault, I found myself required to appear in traffic court. I assumed a quick explanation would settle the matter, without any expensive charges or fines. I left work early one hot afternoon to appear at the appointed time in court. Being sure of my innocence, I didn't even consider how my patched jeans, scuffed boots and sweat would look to the judge.   It didn't even occur to me to bring along a change of clothes that would make me look more like the "respectable" party in the case.  After all, I assumed that the judge would be more interested in the facts of the incident than my social status.

 

I assumed wrongly. Called up to the bench and unacquainted with courtroom propriety, I inadvertently rested my sweaty forearm on the edge of the judge's polished walnut separation barrier at shoulder height. His first question surprised me: "Are you tired?" he asked.  "Not really, your honor," I replied. "Then would you please remove your arm from my bench?"  By then, I was done for.

 

I quickly moved my arm, and just as quickly held my tongue from saying that my taxes paid for his bench. I forgot my planned explanations. I pled guilty to overtaking in an intersection when, in fact, I was being overtaken. I paid my fine, watched my liability insurance rates rise, and seethed as I returned to sliding that rapid-fire air nailer along the j-rail of the mobile home roof edge in my assembly line bay.

 

I hope that we can honor Trayvon's memory by setting aside our own assumptions of others long enough to remember what it feels like to be unfairly judged ourselves.  Let's use this true example to reinforce the lessons of the Bible that warn us against biases of appearance, social status, skin color, or gender.  Together, let's engage a real Spirit-led battle against such sins that beset us as a nation, even in Big Horn County.  Maybe heightened compassion could help prevent more horrendous consequences to ourselves and other people. It wouldn't be the first time faith has been at the center of repentance and change in our nation.

 

The following are a few sources linking the Christian faith center of our nation's religious history to major social repentance, particularly the end of slavery and the civil rights revolution with Dr. Martin Luther King.

 

http://www.bbc.co.uk/religion/religions/christianity/history/slavery_1.shtm

 

Thoughts and Sentiments on the Evil of Slavery (Penguin Classics) [Paperback]

Quobna Ottobah Cugoano 

Born in present-day Ghana, Quobna Ottobah Cugoano was kidnapped at the age of thirteen and sold into slavery by his fellow Africans in 1770; he worked in the brutal plantation chain gangs of the West Indies before being freed in England. His Thoughts and Sentiments on the Evil of Slavery is the most direct criticism of slavery by a writer of African descent. Cugoano refutes pro-slavery arguments of the day, including slavery's supposed divine sanction; the belief that Africans gladly sold their own families into slavery; that Africans were especially suited to its rigors; and that West Indian slaves led better lives than European serfs. Exploiting his dual identity as both an African and a British citizen, Cugoano daringly asserted that all those under slavery's yoke had a moral obligation to rebel, while at the same time he appealed to white England's better self.

 

 

When God Made Martin Luther King Jr. Smile: The Man, The Leader, The Dreamer [Paperback]

Raymond Sturgishttp://www.amazon.com/When-Made-Martin-Luther-Smile/dp/1456420992/ref=sr_1_8?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1376003050&sr=1-8&keywords=Martin+Luther+King+faith 

 

Mobilizing Hope: Faith-Inspired Activism for a Post-Civil Rights Generation[Paperback]

Adam Taylorhttp://www.amazon.com/Mobilizing-Hope-Faith-Inspired-Post-Civil-Generation/dp/0830838376 , Jim Wallis 

 

Racism in the Obama opposition in Arizona removes the façade. It really is about race. Is it also race in Big Horn County?

http://www.azcentral.com/news/politics/articles/20130806obama-phoenix-protests-outside-school.html?nclick_check=1

 

Following is some information on the Zimmerman trial for murder of Trayvon Martin:

 

The trial itself was flawed from the very beginning. This occurred partly because of something known in law enforcement as "parallel construction." It's motivated by a desire to win a case in court without ensuring the identity of the perpetrator. In the case of Trayvon, the parallel construction occurred in place of the truth, and the prosecution may have been caught up in ensuring the exoneration of George Zimmerman.

http://www.alternet.org/civil-liberties/10-reasons-lawyers-say-floridas-law-enforcement-threw-ryan-zimmermans-case-away?akid=10772.144927.deIBo9&rd=1&src=newsletter879185&t=3

 

The conversation in the media by professional journalists and pundits has been no freer of foolishness than that in the barber/beauty shops and parking lots of our nation. And conversation on the Trayvon Martin case has been obsessive.  http://www.people-press.org/2013/07/22/big-racial-divide-over-zimmerman-verdict/

 

http://web.archive.org/web/20120323204107/http://www.reuters.com/article/2012/03/22/tagblogsfindlawcom2012-blotter-idUS212849160320120322

Stand your ground laws state by state

 

http://www.people-press.org/2013/07/22/big-racial-divide-over-zimmerman-verdict/

 

http://www.dailykos.com/story/2013/07/23/1225851/-The-One-Simple-Graphic-that-Sums-Up-the-Whole-Problem-with-the-Trayvon-Martin-Case?detail=email

 

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David Graber
Hardin, MT  59034
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